Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Hey, Maybe It's Not Such A Bad Idea After All..

How the hell do the smart women always get caught up with the bad boys??? Loneliness, always wantin to have a man to lean on, etc. What's the deal with that? Let me tell you girls something from experience - YOU
DON'T NEED A MAN to make you happy. You have to be happy with yourself, secure, confident, and, most importantly, at peace with yourself. Open the Bible and you'll find out what I'm talking about if you don't know any better right now.

Don't be a man'sticket to nowhere. If you wanna date, go on  date, but by no means should you pull the soft, comfy rug out from under your own behind, to accommodate some man and you don't know him from Adam. Take it easy, one step at a time. Make him wonder, let him sweat. If he goes o his merry way, fine and dandy- you didn't need him in your live anyway. If he sticks around, maybe you might have a possbility of somewhting there. (I said, maybe). I hate to sound so harsh, girls, but experience will teach you a few things. Don't make the same mistakes I have made, take the advice from a DIVA that's been through it- if he doesn't have a viable income, a car, credit - Run!

You can do bad all by yourself. Seek comfort in the Lord. He'll never let you fall.

God bless and keep striving, girls.